Our wedding was on a Saturday but we left for Minnesota on a Tuesday. We drove in a snowstorm/blizzard.
That was fun, NOT. At this point, it’s just
devastating comical how many times the weather has interrupted our wedding plans. For starters, I had rain on both of my shower days (Minnesota one in Oct, Chicago one in Feb). We drove at NIGHT in a blizzard for our planning trip at Christmas, and then proceeded to press repeat for our final drive the Tuesday of our wedding week, with it all culminating on our rainy and cold wedding day. Winning.
Mom Sword felt bad for us but she was quick to remind me that we had no trouble getting all of our relatives and friends to the wedding from snowy North Dakota or faraway Scotland so we should be grateful for that (and we were!).
Back to that fateful Tuesday. You can see why there was snow, but why tears? While the weather was melting down so was I. The thing about wedding weeks is that emotions are heightened and everything is a bigger deal than it should be. Miscommunication can and will happen! The gist of it was, my feelings were hurt, but in the grand scheme of things, it was nothing. And true to our overly communicative family, we talked it out and all was fine in the end.
The good news was that Mr. Sword’s parents also arrived that Tuesday despite our crappy Midwestern weather! It was their first trip to America, and spoiler alert, they loved it!
We spent the next few days organizing all of the reception decor to be dropped off at the hotel, folding ceremony programs, meeting with Pastor P, and showing my in-laws around the Twin Cities!
My brother, affectionately known as “The Glue” (because he claims he’s the glue that keeps the family together) got to try on his rented kilt ensemble after it arrived just a few days before the wedding. The funny thing is I think The Glue looked the most Scottish of all our groomsmen despite being the only American (you’ll see what I mean later on).
Great face Mr. Sword, haha!
The Thursday before the wedding I took my Mom and Mr. Sword’s Mum to get their nails done with Sister/MOH Big Eyes in tow. It was nice to have a special moment with both of them before everyone else arrived and since neither of them get their nails done regularly it was a real treat!
Did you have a good cry the week of your wedding (I totally recommend it)? Any out of town brides have trouble getting to their wedding because of weather or something else?
(all photos personal)
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